30 Days of Thanks: November 4th, 2011

Today I'm thankful for my friends who are always here for me, tell me the honest truth and support me through anything. I hope I am as good a friend as you are to me. I love you all.

30 Days of Thanks: November 3rd, 2011

Today I'm thankful for Dae! I may be a bit biased, but I think he is the coolest 2 year old around and everyday he learns something new. I'm thankful he's happy, healthy and he's the sweetest little monster anyone could ask for.

Love you!

30 Days of Thanks: November 2nd, 2011

Today I am thankful for my mom. She supports me in my life decisons even ones she doesn't completly agree with and most importantly, she watches Dae so that I can go to school and not have to put him in daycare. The bond they have is amazing, I have to admit, I am a bit jealous, but I love that he will have these memories with her. I'm also thankful that I have reached the point in my life where she is a mentor to me and not just my mom.

Thanks Ma.

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30 Days of Thanks: November 1st, 2011

Today I am thankful that I have the oppurtunity to go back to school and to do it without getting into massive amounts of debt. (For now lol)

Not many people get the chance to go to school at all and for me to be able to go and have it paid for and have a work study job that provides extra cash is wonderful. I am thankful that I have this chance and can't wait to have my degree!

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30 Days of Thanks

Ok, I've seen lots of friends doing this on facebook, but I have been neglecting my blog so instead of making status updates, I am doing mine here.

The concept is: to state what you are thankful for during the month of November (Thanksgiving duh). So since I have already missed yesterday, I will be doing 2 blog posts today. Plus this one so I guess that's 3 for today. Lol

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It's complicated...

Yup, that's my status. Funny how once you post online, it really becomes real. I've told my parents and dear friends that Aaron and I are working things out for real this time. I am the happiest I have been in a while, I know this is going to work out.

We have been going to counseling, WOW, it's amazing how different that makes things. Finally, we can talk about important things, our past and not fight, get angry, its like we are learning how to be married. I honestly wish we had done counseling sooner. Perhaps we could have avoided this whole thing. Although, maybe we were meant to go through this whole incredible ordeal because it was meant to make us stronger as individuals and most importantly as a couple.

Dae is going to have his parents together, better then ever and we are going to rule our world.

LOVE IT.

Looking Up!

Today was our first couples counseling session. I just want to say, I am REALLY happy with the way things went. I like our counselor, he's a student working on his graduate level stuff and we met his supervisor/professor, he's amazing.

He came in and had been watching us on video and noticed by the way we were sitting how we feel about each other, we discussed why we wanted to go to counseling and the history of our relationship/marriage. The counselor said we were a great couple, that things look so positive and workable. He said I was strong and powerful (wish he had said I had super powers but that's ok) and that aaron has strength and that we need each other to work

There was a ton of other stuff, we talked about some heavy things, it was INTENSE at some points, just the raw emotion, the truth, the love. POWERFUL and AMAZING.

I am so freaking happy, in love, hopeful...loving life right now. I can't wait to see what the future holds for my family.