After reading so much lately about each of our lives, I have to truly ask myself what is it that I overlooked to fall so in love with someone that was so wrong for me. How did each of us overlook the things in our significant other that has now taken us to divorcing them? Dustin had posted to someone that maybe we believed that our men were the victims of some cruel BM. But yet here we are most of us divorced or on the verge of divorce. So was BM truly the issue? I can honestly say in my case that BM had her faults but DW was the issue. I know each of us has said that we never wanted our biochildren to grow up the way that our stepchildren did. But in reality, I think my children will be much better kids for having lived through all of this! I honestly hope that each of you that is going through a divorce or thinking about it, will really look at your situation honestly. It took me years to truly do that. I had wonderful friends telling me to evaluate things for years but never would listen to them but rather made more and more excuses! I have finally gotten to a place that I realize I deserve so much more than I was being given. I may not be happy right now in my current situation, but it will be much better for my future!!! Please truly give yourself the credit you deserve and seek all that you deserve!
--I love this so much. There are so many good points here, I am thankful for friends like this. I'm not ready to deal with the things mentioned in here, but I can already see that I am not the enemy here. All I asked for was normal things that families do.
I am not to blame!
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